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Inlägg #1: Postat: 2002-12-27 19:36:00
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Frederik |
Seriously, dont you think the main problem here is that we both men and women often have too high expectations from a relationship? That we hope that a relationship means eternal bliss and happiness in the holy land of endless orgasms, sos when things get difficult or boring some of us choose an easy way out and realise too late or choose to ignore the damage they cause that way?
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Inlägg #2: Postat: 2002-12-27 19:39:00
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Frederik |
I dont think blackmail a la treat me like a goddess and Ill stay faithful works. I agree that lack of attention from ones partner is probably one of the main reasons for infidelity. Still the only way to overcome that is to realise that a relationship means hard work, that to reach the top one has to climb the mountain, and that life is not about tops but about mountain-climbing as a whole. Happiness is a direction, not a point.
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Inlägg #3: Postat: 2002-12-27 20:02:00
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Frederik |
...and we should also forget that silly myth about princesses on white livestock, come to think of it. Its only a myth. A very damaging one, even. Well, you might find a couple of horse-riding princesses in Sweden, but theyre only human, their horses smell and shit, and just like anyone else theyll be unable to fulfil all their partners wishes anywhere anytime. Nobody can possibly do that.
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Inlägg #4: Postat: 2002-12-27 20:07:00
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Frederik |
I bet thered be much less infidelity and unhappiness around if wed learn to be happy with ourselves first and then look for someone to share that happiness with, rather than screening the market for happiness-providers. Theres no use in blaming others for ones shortcomings like Anna seems to do. In the end, whether its about issues of infidelity or a happy life, its all in our hands, and in no-one elses.
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Inlägg #5: Postat: 2002-12-27 20:16:00
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Michael Stahlberg |
Pardon me, but if you can read
Swedish unless you get it
translated, why dont you write in
our beautiful germanic tongue?
Just curious.
Cordially,
Mike Beachbummer
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Inlägg #6: Postat: 2002-12-28 10:53:00
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En beundrarinna |
Frederik: du verkar vara en mkt klok & sympatisk person har läst dina kommentarer lite varstans. Du lyser upp i det annars ganska kompakta mörkret på Sourze. Fortsätt så!
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Inlägg #7: Postat: 2002-12-28 11:23:00
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Åke |
Håller med "en beundrarinna". Han är kul att läsa! :
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Inlägg #8: Postat: 2002-12-29 16:06:00
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Michael Ståhlberg |
Warum sind die Männer unfaithful?
Dass ist wirklich einer frage zu
beanworten. Vieleicht hat es mit
die ombytlighet die Frauen zu tun?
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Inlägg #9: Postat: 2002-12-29 16:07:00
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Michael Ståhlberg |
Einer arme kärl, der hat zu viel
zu trinken an einer Firmafest, kann
gefresten sein unfaithful zu bleiben.
Es sind, oder ist, immer die Frauen
die hat kopfsmertzen und nicht
ficken wollen.
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Inlägg #10: Postat: 2002-12-29 17:24:00
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Erik Lindgren |
Aber ja, dass ist ja wirklich eine grosser Problem das Welt.
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Inlägg #11: Postat: 2002-12-29 18:30:00
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Herr doktor Michael von Stahlberg |
Ja, wirklich. Warum haben viele
frauen dem kopfsmertzen? Ich
bin sehr gail immer, und wollen
viel gern mit Ihn ficken, aber mein frau sagt often "nicht heute".
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Inlägg #12: Postat: 2002-12-30 03:22:00
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Stella |
For Frederic, le beau: Jag håller med dig, om man är på samma nivå i relationen och vet var man har varandra så funkar det och då finns inget behov av att vara otrogen. Om någon av parterna hela tiden sneglar över staketet för att hitta nåt bättre är det egentligen ingen relation utan en nödlösning, vilket man snabbt ser på vissa par, bara man introducerar dem för någon ny spelare i gamet.
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Inlägg #13: Postat: 2002-12-30 12:38:00
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Frederik |
Michael: Zuviel deutsches Bier getrunken, was? Allerdings scheinbar noch nicht genug: an Deiner Rechtschreibung haperts noch. To satisfy your curiosity, I dont write in Swedish because Im a bit lazy and kind of a perfectionist. Itd take me twice the time it already takes to write a comment, and Im sure thered still be mistakes left. So far I didnt hear too many complaints about me doing this, which is why I kept going.
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Inlägg #14: Postat: 2002-12-30 12:44:00
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Frederik |
Beundrarinna and Ake: Thanks! Though I have to admit that Im not too fond of being admired. On the other hand, if someone else is happy with what I do or write, then so am I a subtle but significant difference.
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Inlägg #15: Postat: 2002-12-30 12:48:00
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Frederik |
Stella: True. Makes me think of a saying by Antoine de Saint Exupery that I often quote in this respect: Those who prefer above all the pleasure of the approach will never know the joy of the encounter
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Inlägg #16: Postat: 2002-12-31 06:54:00
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Michael Ståhlberg |
Thnx for ze explanation. And I must
confirm your theory about my
writing under
ze influence not now however, so
it really doesnt make much
difference, does it?. However, as I recall,
Ive had two glasses of malt whisky
and perhaps a beer & eventually
two glasses of red wine with ze dinner, but if that was the case, I
dont recall feeling it.
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Inlägg #17: Postat: 2002-12-31 17:42:00
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Michael von Besserwisser |
Uh, "eventually" slutligen kan användas som ovan, men då jag avsåg "eventuellt" så är det icke så bra. Till Grandin by ze way:
spieces *are*, not is. You know.
Gott sei dank,
Michael von Messerschmidt
P.S. Nix, inte en droppe jäst druva
har passerat mina läppar.
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Inlägg #18: Postat: 2003-01-03 18:38:00
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Anna |
Naturligtvis
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